Totally Me is focused
on helping people become more intimate with themselves and their relationships.
Individuals need to understand their
own personal needs before exploring intimacy with a partner.
If you’re feeling removed
or distant from your partner, you have come to the right place!
offers a free initial 30-minute consultation for you to explore if Intimacy Therapy is for you.
The Intimacy Curve
Younger couples and individuals, between the ages of 18-30, begin to learn how to negotiate new relationships as they discover themselves as sexual beings. In the beginning of a budding relationship, the affair is intense, and sexual experiences should be high and uninhibited. The couple discover intimacy whilst exploring and understanding each other.
Lack of time for intimacy
This stage continues between the ages of 30-50, as the couple move into a stage of permanence and eventually marriage. The family begins to grow, and transit into a stage of life filled with challenges and stresses that may threaten the stability of the family unit. Intimacy may be lost completely, and couples struggle to find the time or desire to reconnect.
The ’empty nest’ syndrome has begun to sink in as children leave the home. Couples, at this stage, may begin to face other challenges such as looming retirement, menopause, changes in health status, or simply bad habits have become entrenched in the relationship and the couple face completely new challenges as they get to know each other again as individuals who may have simply “grown apart”.
Listen to Tracy Ziman Jacobs
live and in studio with Pabi Moloi
live on Power FM
A Frank Conversation On Sex And Intimacy